Which lines have you been waiting in?

It has been quite some time since my last entry. Blame it on life…actually lets just call it priorities. I’m not doing much modeling at the moment and have started to teach english privately while studying Chinese. It’s fair to say that the business is going MUCH better than the Chinese. My next post will update everyone on life, but this post is about that most wonderful time of the year…

Yes, I’m talking about Black Friday…what, you thought I was referring to the Christmas? Thanksgiving? Or maybe Remembrance Day? Actually, now that I think about it, I guess I am referring to those three days which when combined make up what should be the most reflective time of the year for the average person.

Once a month in October, November, and December, we are given a day or two off of work  so that we may celebrate, give thanks or pay tribute to others. It’s against this back-drop that “Black Friday” stands out like a business suit in a soup kitchen line. To be specific, it’s the fights, lines and obsession with getting a “steal” that I’m talking about, not the shopping itself.

In the following clip listen to how excited people are, and look at how many of them there are?! I mean you would think that they were about to meet Jay-Z and Beyonce or something…but no…they are buying underwear…that they can’t even afford.

So what’s the point of this post? Well, personally I find it hard to watch footage like this, because I just don’t get it. But, my point isn’t to judge. It’s certainly not to say that this is something endemic of a particular nation because as soon as something is “on sale”, “marked down” or “free”, it seems to bring out the worst in people regardless of where they’re from. For an example of this right here in China read this. All I’m hoping is that all my readers reflect a little on their own actions and choices a little.

Here’s the twist though, if you were the woman screaming for joy over the $30 thong you bought for $5, or if you were the guy who drove all the way from Vancouver to Seattle in order to buy an Armani suit that was discounted 50%, that’s fine. Savings matter, especially in today’s economy, and quite simply, who doesn’t appreciate big sales?!

What I’m asking is whether you’ve spent some time in a different line recently. Maybe the one full of people waiting to shake a Veteran’s hand in the pouring rain. If not, why not? Were you one of those people who, when asked, told their buddy they couldn’t afford to contribute $20 to a”Movember” campaign, or couldn’t spare a minute to even talk to the Habitat for Humanity canvasser on the street corner. Were you able to  commit to making a monthly contribution of even $5 a month towards any cause that was near and dear to your heart this past year?

So you see, this post really isn’t about the evils of shopping, and neither is this time of year. It’s a special time of year, a time when we are reminded to give thanks and are given ample opportunity to give back because its safe to say that most of us have more to be thankful for than we realize.

So next year when “Black Friday” rolls around, and you find yourself standing in an epic line, or watching  all the videos, and news stories about the general mayhem, remember to ask yourself which lines you’ve been waiting in all year.

As a footnote I read about “Giving Tuesday” after the fact and I hope it gains a little traction next year. Just one more opportunity to GIVE!

THANKFUL!

Its Thanksgiving, and I can honestly say that I am THANKFUL.This has been a big weekend, not a milestone, just big…really big, and this is why.

You see, this weekend was the culmination of what has been a two year journey. I packed up my bags, and moved to Toronto with my girlfriend. We will be living here for the next month until we move on to GuangZhou China where we will spend the next three months while I model and Ellen develops her photography portfolio.

Thinking back on how it is that I got here, I cant help but feel grateful and proud. I am grateful for all of the support, inspiration, motivation and encouragement that my friends and family have afforded me, and am proud that I didn’t squander the opportunities that Ive been given.

This is my first entry, and with it I’ll make this blog live. Ill blog about my experiences as an international model, my ambitions in the world of social entrepreneurship, and in partnership with my talented girlfriend and photographer Ellen (Sumi) Sumono, will try and paint a picture of life on the road, wherever that may be. So, subscribe, stay in touch, start a conversation.

Wrapping up, I’d like to thank you everyone who has played a part in me getting here. This feels like the culmination of many conversations, relationships and decisions and yet I know its just the beginning. So for now, let me simply conclude by expressing how truly THANKFUL I am for being right here, right now.

AvK